Stressed Out and Depressed! Can Counseling for Fibromyalgia & Other Chronic Pain Conditions Really Help?

I cannot stress enough how important it is to getNot only does chronic pain cause enormous stress in
the right coping skills and help in order to keep fromour lives, but we are unable to manage it.
giving up or giving in.  People with FibromyalgiaAll people have stress in their lives which may be
Syndrome (FM), Chronic Myofascial Pain (CMP) andunavoidable. FM and other chronic pain sufferers have
any other chronic pain conditions, can benefit fromeven more.  Counseling and/or stress management
counseling by a certified therapist for:  stressful lifecan help us cope with our symptoms and improve
conditions, depression and/or anxiety, abuse histories,our overall reactions to stress.
adjustment issue to chronic illness, poor supportI have been seeing a certified therapist that has
system and many other challenges we face.really helped me discover some of the issues that
There is a connection between FM, CMP andmay contribute to my pain.  It’s also not just
depression. The stress from constant pain andabout the here and now, but past experiences that
fatigue can cause anxiety, depression, inactivity andwe think are in the past, are really still simmering in
social isolation.    It is also possible that anxiety andour sub-conscious, affecting our emotional state and
depression are part of FM and CMP, just like theour inability to cope with the stress that’s right in
pain.  Depression and chronic pain can greatlyfront of us.  I resisted therapy for years!  I did not
interfere with the way you cope with activities atwant to go to yet another doctor that I would have
home or at work.  As a sufferer myself, I knowto convince that my pain is real and not “all in my
exactly what that’s like.head”.  It took seeing several different
Chronic pain sufferers most often need acounselors before I found one that REALLY GOT
combination of medications (I am on anIT!  It feels like a GREAT weigh has been lifted off
anti-depressant and several other meds), alternativemy shoulders.  My stress and anxiety are becoming
therapies, cognitive behavioral therapy, and a changemanageable and I feel less and less depressed.
in lifestyle habits. So it is important to openly discussCounselors trained in treating FM and other chronic
any symptoms of depression you have with ourpain patients can be very helpful, but we have to put
doctors.  Medication is not enough by itself andin some work ourselves.  Its not easy to make the
some prescription drugs make our depression andchanges required to make therapy successful, but
anxiety worse.we need to correct the self-defeating thoughts and
Some people with fibromyalgia and chronic pain mayactions that have led us to seek help from a
be aware they are depressed. Others may notprofessional in the first place. 
realize they are depressed, but they know somethingResearch shows that a combined multidisciplinary
is just is not right.treatment approach is the most effective way to
Researchers have found that fibromyalgia patientsachieve symptom relief.  There is no cure for
have an inability to process and handle stress. Studiesfibromyalgia, but there is hope if we seek and get
have shown that the breakdown in the adrenals,the right help!  Counseling can really make a
hypothalamus, pituitary and thyroid glands play a keydifference along with the other treatments you may
role in FM patients’ lack of coping mechanisms. be receiving!